The Pain of Poor Estate Planning
Blues singer Etta James (of “At Last” fame) is in poor physical and mental health these days. Fortunately she has enough money to pay for round the clock at home care. Unfortunately, there’s a dispute between her son and her husband over controlling the money. The son says he has a power of attorney. The husband says she was in poor mental condition when she signed the document. It’s all in court now, and in the media.
The rift began last November when Mills, James’ husband of 41 years and tour manager, filed a petition to gain access to three of the singer’s bank accounts, estimated to total around $1 million. He said he needed to pay for her business affairs and mounting medical bills. Mills says he spends around $30,000 a month for private medical care, which includes two full-time nurses and a round-the-clock doctor.
The following month, James’ son Donto, a bassist in his mother’s band, filed legal papers asking the court to grant him conservatorship of his mother’s estate. He also asked that the court appoint an independent administrator to handle her finances. There has been no mention of a living will.
Donto, who is Mills’ stepson, also questioned whether his mother is getting proper care by her $20,000-a-month live-in doctor, Dr. Elaine James.
“There are a lot of allegations flying everywhere,” said Sandoval.
This kind of dispute not only wastes a lot of money but diminishes the dignity and legacy of Ms. James. These types of things easily can be avoided by having a complete estate plan prepared when you have no expectation of needing it and updating it regularly. A complete plan includes a financial power of attorney, health care documents (living will, health care power of attorney), and of course a will and any other necessary documents.



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